
Following are some of the
little stories that Margaret Gebarowski
remembers hearing over the years. Margaret, her
brother Charles, and her parents, Fenton and
Marion Downing Barrett, lived with Charlie and
Estelle.
Grandpa would sit on the
back porch, tapping the floor with his cane. Grandma would call:
"Charlie, quit that pecking!"
Grandpa raised pigs as well
as cattle, and kids. Leland and Marion being the
youngest played a lot together. One day when
sliding down a new straw stack, they decided to
try to slide a little pig down. They did several
times, 'til one 0f them caught his foot or
something and went end over end and broke the
pig's, neck. Needless to say, they stopped. When
Grandpa came in that night, he said, "Stel, a
steer must have stepped on one of the pigs and
broke his neck out by the straw stack" • Nothing
more said.
Grandma told about Emery
and Chuck locking the Gypsy peddler in the out
house and then going back to work in the'
fields. Grandma had to let him out.
Emery left the horses
standing in the field, while he answered
nature's call.
Up in a tree something
frightened the horses. They ran away with the
plow behind. He had to explain to Grandpa.
Nora wanted some gold fish.
When Grandpa asked her where she would keep
them, she told him "under the bed". He answered,
"Norie, gold fish can't live in salt water".
When just a little girl,
Marion got mad at Ransom and Nora because they
wouldn't take her on their wedding trip. She ran
away and got lost in the corn field.
When he was a young man,
Lou was involved in a hunting accident.
According to Grandpa, Lou got shot in the thigh
because he hunted crows on Sunday.
When Oliver Titsworth died,
Marion, Leland and Fannie went to Flint to the
funeral. Upon arriving in the city, they went to
a florist to arrange for flowers and to get
directions to the funeral home. They found the
place and went in and up front to view the
remains. It was a red haired woman rather than
an elderly man. They did eventually find the
right place in time for the funeral.
Grandma set her pans of
milk in the cellar way on shelves. She skimmed
the milk in the morning. One morning she skimmed
the cream into a crock and promptly emptied it
into the swill pail which was waiting for the
skimmed milk. She threw the cream skimmer and
said, "Oh, shit a meat axe!" Grandpa said,
"What's the matter, Stel?" She told him. He
said, "That cream won't hurt the pigs at all."
Chuck took his nephew,
Charles, with him on a boat ride (Chuck made the
boat) down the Macon when it was flooded. They
rode from Kniffen Road to the County Line.
Chuck's own boys wouldn't go.
Lewis, one of Chuck's
twins, rode his pony cross lots to see Grandpa
and Grandma. The pony got loose and went home.
Chuck looked and looked for Lewis and at last
went over to tell Grandpa and Grandma about his
absence and found him having dinner with them.
Marion, when she was home
for the weekend from State Normal College in
Ypsilanti, was washing Grandpa's car. Her
clothes got caught in the gasoline engine belt
and tore them all off but her silk "teddy".
Grandpa happened by and said, "Babe, you better
go get some clothes on".
Grandpa and Marion were
looking for the old boar hog. Upon not finding
him, they closed the chicken coop door. Next
morning when they let the chickens out, out came
the boar, but not too many chickens.
After Grandma was quite
old, while being carried out to the yard on a
reunion day, she looked at all her family and
said, "Just think! I'm the cause of all this".
Alonzo G. Titsworth, son of
Elias and Nancy Titsworth, was born in Michigan,
June 14, 1861. Little is known about his early
life, but it is presumed he grew up in Ridgeway
Township, except for a short time in Seneca
Township. He worked by the month as a farm hand
for the local fanners. After his parents
separated, he continued to live with his mother,
and bought a twenty acre parcel on the County
Line from her on October 29, 1878. In 1886 he
married Margaret Jane Stocker, daughter of Aaron
Sylvester and Elizabeth (Gilbert) Stocker.
Margaret was born December 19, 1871.
In 1887, Lon sold his 20
acres to his half brother, Charles James
Downing, and he moved into Britton. He operated
a grocery store in the Beasley Block on the
south side of M50. On a Friday, September 20,
1888, along with several other stores, his
grocery was destroyed by fire.
After his store burned, his
outlook was very gloomy, there not being that
many opportunities for employment. His uncle,
William Getty, suggested he come north to Antrim
County, where the logging "business was really
booming. So he and his family gathered their few
belongings and left for the north woods.
At this time, Lon and
Maggie had one son, Charles James, named after
his uncle, Charles James Downing. He was born in
1887. A daughter, Adeline Mathilda, was born
October 25, 1888. Their second daughter, Sylvia
Bell, was born in Antrim County, October 16,
1893.
Lon worked in the lumber
camps, and on November 2, 1897, at the age of 36
years, 4 months, and 19 days, he died as a
result of an accident in a shingle mill. He was
buried in the Bay View Cemetery at Eastport, in
Torch Lake Township, Antrim County.
Young Charles, as soon as
he was big enough, followed in his father's
footsteps, working in the logging industry to
support his mother and two sisters. At the age
of sixteen he contracted the dread disease,
typhoid fever, and died on September 7, 1903, in
Torch Lake Township.
Maggie remarried a man by
the name of Oliver Henry Titsworth. He was born
near Adrian, Michigan, on June 30, 1873, to
William H. and Fannie E. (Carmer) Titsworth. It
is believed that he was Lon's cousin. Maggie and
Oliver continued to live in Northern Michigan.
They had five children: John, Lawrence, Bernice,
Fannie and Marguerita.
Alexander "Elick" Titsworth
was born to Elias and Nancy Titsworth on
Christmas Day, December 25, 1863, in Elmira, New
York. His family soon moved back to Michigan.
However, it appears he spent some of his teenage
years in New York state, for in approximately
1884, he married Eunice Bennett in Elmira, New
York. Eunice was born July 7, 186J, to Mr. and
Mrs. Cyrus Bennet. Eunice's sister, Jennie,
married Joseph Daykin, whose father had
emigrated from England, and had settled near
Britton. The couple remained in New York for a
few years, and it was there that their first two
children were born. James H. was born in 1885,
and Ella M. was born April 8, 1887. They moved
back to Michigan where Elick worked as a tenant
farmer. They lived on various farms in Ridgeway
and Milan Townships, including the Ben Ball
place southeast of Britton, and farms on the
County Line and near Cone. Their third child,
Nancy, was born in 1890, and Martha was born in
1892. Elias was born in 1894, Walter in 1898,
and Harold R. was born February 4, 1902.
Elick was a tall man, but
not quite as tall as Elias. He was thin and raw
boned, but lacked his father's rugged good
looks. He was a kindly man; he worked hard, was
good to his family, but times were not easy.
Eunice was well liked,
friendly and helpful to all her neighbors and
relatives. The old saying goes, "A man works
from sun to sun, but a woman's work is never
done." This held true for Eunice, just as it did
for all farm women of that time. There were no
modem conveniences in her day to make life
easier. Many early farm homes were crudely
furnished, some with nothing more than dirt
floors. They were poorly heated with fireplaces
or wood burning stoves that lost a good share of
the heat up the chimney. Even so, the people
were comfortable for the most part because they
wore heavy woolen clothing, including long
underwear, and long woolen stockings. They slept
on warm straw ticks or on fluffy feather beds,
three or four kids in a bed, covered with
several heavy comforters.
Washing for a family of
nine was done by hand every Monday, if it didn't
rain. First the clothes were boiled in rainwater
from the cistern, with homemade soap, in a
copper boiler to loosen the soil and to whiten
them, and then they were dumped, scalding water
and all, into a galvanized tub and rubbed on a
washboard until they were clean. Of course they
were rinsed in icy cold water, blue with ball
bluing, for further whitening, and were rung out
by hand, before hanging on the line to dry. It
was always a race to see who in the neighborhood
could get her clothes on the line first.
As soon as the washing was
finished, the bread dough, which had been set to
rise right after breakfast, was kneaded and
formed into loaves to rise again, so it could be
baked in the big cook stove in time to have warm
bread and butter for dinner, or at least for
supper. There were three large meals a day,
breakfast at 6:00 A.M. right after chores,
dinner at 12:00 noon, and supper at 6:00 P.M.
A large kettle of potatoes
was boiled for dinner, to go along with fresh
side pork or whatever other meat was on hand.
The left over potatoes would be chopped and
fried in lard or meat frying for supper, along
with plenty of bread which had been kept warm in
the warming oven on top of the range. There
would be homemade butter and jelly, sometimes
cooked vegetables, and always dessert, such as
pie, cake, cookies or canned fruit. If there
were any fried potatoes left over from supper,
they would be warmed up the next morning for
breakfast. In most farm homes there was never
enough meat to serve daily, but always an
abundance right after butchering. The liver,
side pork, and sweet breads were eaten up while
fresh. The heart and tongue were cooked and
pickled. The poorer chunks of pork were ground
into sausage, then seasoned with sage, salt and
pepper, and mixed in a huge pan and formed into
patties. These patties, as well as the pork
chops, were fried down in a large iron spider,
put in crocks, and covered with lard, which
would preserve them.
Ball jars were filled with
the more choice chunks, and then the jars were
covered with water in the clothes boiler, and
processed for several hours.
The hams, shoulders, and
bacon were smoked in the smoke house, and the
lard was rendered and run through the iron lard
press, then poured into large covered metal cans
and stored in the attic or the cellar.
In between all the washing,
the cooking, baking, ironing, and canning, there
was gardening, churning, cleaning, sewing, and
even helping with• the chores and in the fields
in the summertime.
Evenings were usually spent
mending clothes, darning socks, and doing fancy
work. The long winter months were always looked
forward to because it gave time to sew clothes
for the children, piece quilts, sew carpet rags,
crack and pick out hickory nuts and walnuts, and
still have a little leisure time for reading the
continued story in the monthly Michigan Farmer,
and cut out recipes and patterns from the daily
paper.
The children had their
share of work to do, too. As soon as the boys
were big enough, they helped with the chores,
pitching the manure out of the barn, tossing
down hay from the mow, mixing the swill in the
big barrels and slopping the hogs, and milking
the cows, always squirting some at the cats who
sat there waiting. Before supper they chopped
wood and brought in armloads to fill the wood
box. The girls' duties included: feeding the
chickens, gathering the eggs, and carrying the
potato peelings out to the barnyard. They hoed
and weeded in the garden and helped with the
housework. It was their job to keep the water
pail filled with fresh water from the hand pump
across the driveway, and the reservoir on the
side of the cook stove filled with rainwater
from the cistern. Each afternoon they filled all
the lamps with kerosene. They worked hard and
they played hard. Even so, it was a fun place,
and the little cousins always looked forward to
spending a few days at Uncle Elick's and Aunt
Eunice's.
Elick's oldest son, James,
in his youth, was a handsome man, said to have
been the perfect picture of Elias. In fact, he
was not only like Elias in appearance, but in
actions and personality as well. Jim married a
lady by the name of Elizabeth. This marriage
ended in divorce. I remember well when I was a
kid living with my aunt and uncle, one day on
the way home from Adrian, Uncle Johnny picked up
a man who had just hopped off a box car on one
of the freight trains passing through Lenawee
Junction. His name was Jim Titsworth. He said he
had no home, no family, and no job, so Uncle
Johnny hired him by the month to work as a farm
hand. Of course, he roomed and boarded with us.
Ma (my Aunt Minnie) told me at the time that he
was some shirttail relation to my Grandpa
Downing. He was very tall and skinny, at least 6
ft. 6 in. I looked at him with awe and decided
he was the tallest man I ever saw. He even had
to stoop to pass through the doorways. After he
left our place, we never saw him again. Later in
life he married a widow who lived down by
Wellsville whose name was Mary Prairie. He died
when he was :J+ years old of bilateral pulmonary
tuberculosis, and is buried in Pleasant View
Cemetery in Blissfield, Michigan.
Ella M. Titsworth married
Eugene D. Converse. They had fourteen children:
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Jennie (1905 1928)
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Elgie
(1907 1909)
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Ethel Irene (1909 1910)
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Elsie (1911), Hazel (1913)
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Martha
(1915 1948)
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Nancy (1916 1983)
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William (1919 died in World War II in
1945)
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Eunice
(1920 1984)
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Lucille (1924)
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Gustave
(1926)
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Goldie (1927)
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Alma (1929 died, age 16, May 11, 1946,
with 3rd. degree burns, car accident)
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Eugene (1932)
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Ella died in 1957
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Eugene died March 26, 1934
Nancy Anna Titsworth
married Gustave C. Moll on March 10, 1920. They
had one daughter, Lillian, born December 10,
1924. Nancy died August 5, 1943, and Gustave in
1969.
Martha Titsworth married
Edward. A. Nichols, and had one son, Earl. Earl
spent his childhood with Elick and Eunice.
Elias Titsworth, born in
1894, worked in Northern Michigan for the
logging industry. On February 13, 1913, at age
16, he was killed in a lumber camp near Gaylord.
He is buried in Waverly Township, Michigan.
Walter married Enuna Moore
on October 20, 1923. They had one son, Harold
E., born July 7, 1924, died in 1966. Walter died
in 1934. They're buried in the Ridgeway
Cemetery.
Harold R. married Grace
Everett. and Elick Raymond (December 9, 1930 ) •
tuberculosis.
Eunice died November 7,
1932, age 69, of heart failure. Elick died
November 26, 1944, age 81, of acute cardiac
failure. They're buried in the Ridgeway
Cemetery.
Matilda "Mattie" Titsworth,
daughter of Elias and Nancy Titsworth, was born
in the little log cabin on the County Line, May
28, 1867. Mattie was a chip off the old block.
Like her dad, Elias, she had the wanderlust, and
couldn't stay put in anyone place for long. She
allegedly ran away from home when she was
thirteen to join the circus.
They had Elsie May
(December 29, 1928), Harold died on May 26,
1935, age 34, of
While still a teenager,
Mattie was married for a short time, but the
husband’s name is not known.
About 1890 she married a
young man who worked for a newspaper in Detroit.
His name was Walter A. Moran. They had two
children, Benjamin Jesse, born March 7, 1893,
and Estella May, born October 15, 1894. While
the children were small, Mattie ran off and left
the family.
A few years later she
married Jess DePung, and at the time of Charles
J. Downing's death in 1932, she was living in
Gaylord, Michigan, having been following the
lumber camps. She seemed to thrive on all the
excitement. She and Jess had three children:
Effie, Ernest and Dirk. While these children
were small, she supposedly ran off and left this
family, too, but Jess managed to find her and
bring her back home.
She eventually did succeed
in leaving the family, and later married a man
by the name of Charles E. Knight.
During the latter years of
her life, Mattie managed to keep in touch with
Effie, Ernie and Dirk.
On June 5, 1949, while
living with Effie, she died in Grand Rapids,
Michigan. She was 79 years old. Cause of death
was bronchial pneumonia and senile dementia. No
record has been found of what happened to
Mattie's first two children, Benjamin Jesse and
Estella May Moran.
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