
Bertha Williams was born to
Nancy Getty and Henry W. Williams on December
12, 1878. Little is known of Henry Williams
other than that he was born in England. No
records have been found to give any clues as to
where he lived, where or when he and Nancy were
married, how old he was, what he looked like,
what his occupation was, or where he went after
he left this area.
Nancy had been quite
surprised to find she was pregnant again. After
all, she was forty three years old, and hadn't
expected to have any more children, but
nevertheless she took it in stride. Her baby
girl, Bertha, was born two weeks before
Christmas in the little log cabin on the west
side of County Line. What a wonderful Christmas
present. She was a pretty baby, and she was very
good natured, a consolation after Nancy's
difficult pregnancy. The fact that she was such
a delightful child makes it all the harder to
understand how her father could leave the family
the way he did. According to hearsay, Henry
couldn't see eye to eye with Charlie and Lon,
Nancy's two oldest old, he left for parts
unknown, and were sons, so before Bertha was two
years never heard from again.
In 1881 Nancy married
Andrew Lafler, and the family lived for a short
time in
Dundee Township. They were married only
two or three years, and then divorced. Life was
extremely unpleasant with Lafler for a
stepfather, and apparently Bertha erased that
part of her life from her memory. She never once
mentioned him to her children, nor spoke of him
to anyone else, for that matter. After the
divorce, Nancy and the children moved back to
the log cabin on the County Line.
One of Bertha's earliest
recollections was when she was five or six years
old, of having to run across the field at night
in the dark to get Charlie because Lon was very
sick. She was terrified, but there was no one
else to go. Exactly where Charlie was living,
I'm not sure. It could have been when he was
working the Jeff Pilbeam farm a quarter of a
mile or so south, shortly after he and Estella
were married.
The Getty School wasn't
built until in 1889, so where Bertha attended
school her first three years is not known. On
October), 1887, Charlie and Lon bought a small
house in Britton for their mother and Bertha. It
was on the south side of Wells St., a block
south of M.50. As is so often the case when a
child is born to an older woman, Bertha was the
light of her mother's life. She was a bright,
sweet natured, talented youngster with a
pleasant singing voice, and was often called
upon to perform in Sunday School programs.
Bertha stayed with her
cousin, Phena Exelby, a good share of the time
while she attended school in Britton, working
for her room and board. She was studious and
well behaved what a pity that she had to quit
school when she was only twelve years old to
hire out as a house maid for a family in
Tecumseh. From then on she earned her own
living, doing housework, working in a
restaurant, and she even worked at the Britton
Hotel for a short time.
Bertha soon showed signs of
possessing the petite Irish beauty of her
grandmother, Matilda. She had the same raven
colored hair and hazel eyes.
When she was about twenty
years old she met Maurice Adams. Maurice was the
youngest of nine children, born in Wales on
August 23, 1878, to Thomas and Mary Evans Adams.
They had come to the United states in 1879. On
December 14, 1898, Bertha and Maurice were
married. Their first child, David, was born
April 12, 1900, while the couple lived with his
parents on the Adams homestead, the first farm
house on the County Line north of M5J, on the
east side of the road.
On August 19, 1904, they
had a baby boy, Percy, who died in infancy.
Shortly after Percy's death, they moved near
Cone where Maurice worked on a dairy farm for a
Mr. Wilson. In years to come, David remembered
that his Grandma Nancy would ride the train from
Britton to Cone. He would see her get off the
train and walk out to visit them. On May 17,
1905, Nancy died of a stroke. She was found dead
in her home. On August 5, 1905, Charlie Downing
sold the little house on Wells St. to Benjamin
Beasley.
Mr. Wilson's daughter was a
doctor. On September 8, 1905, she delivered
Bertha's first daughter, who they named Pauline
after the doctor. A year or so later the family
moved into Britton where Maurice ran a hay baler
during the summer months for the local fanners.
It was during their stay in Britton that Evelyn
was born, April 30, 1908.
Their next home was in
Tecumseh on the comer of Logan and Maumee. This
was where they were living at the time their two
youngest children were born Christine on
November 21, 1910, and Martha on January 27,
1912. While living in Tecumseh, Bertha and the
children occasionally took the train to Britton
to visit relatives. They maintained a close
relationship with all their kinfolk, especially
Phena and Edgar Exelby. And, of course, the
children always looked forward to spending a few
days at the home of Uncle Elick and Aunt Eunice
Titsworth. It was such a fun place.
After Tom Adams died in
1906, Mary rented the farm to John Cowans and
prepared to move into Britton. On October 4,
1907, she bought from Ben Beasley the same
little house on Wells St. where Nancy Williams
had lived.
Sometimes Bertha and the
kids would spend the day with Grandma Adams. At
suppertime Maurice would come and pick them up.
One of the babies was often uneasy and cried a
lot. Grandma Adams, who still had a strong Welsh
accent, would say, "Canna ya do somethin' to
that youngin'? Give her some paregoric."
In 1912, when Martha was a
baby, they moved back onto the Adams homestead.
In 1918, Maurice's sister,
Martha Packard, urged them to move closer to
her. So they sold the farm and moved onto a farm
near Tecumseh.
Bertha had been laid up
with a serious illness for several months after
the birth of her first child. She was just
beginning to get back on her feet when she
became pregnant again. Little Percy was born in
1904 but lived only a few days, and his death
left Bertha very despondent. She had four more
children in rapid succession.
Being a rather frail
person, Bertha never had a chance to gain back
her strength. Her earlier illness was taking its
toll, and she developed pernicious anemia. This,
plus their frequent moving from place to place,
kept Bertha in a rundown, exhausted state all
during the years that her children were growing
up. Even though the children were taken care of
a good share of the time by hired girls, they
remember their mother as being a good mother and
an excellent companion. She sang to them many of
the old Irish lyrics which she had learned from
her mother. She often gathered them around her
and told them stories which had been handed down
through the generations. She was an excellent
cook and a good neighbor with a host of friends.
She was a member of the Rebekah Lodge, and she
attended the Christian Union Church in Britton.
An entry in the Dorcas Bible Class minutes
reads: "Mrs. Bertha Adams invited the Dorcas
Class for an all day meeting with a potluck
dinner on May 22, 1919. A good time was had by
all." A January 17, 1924, entry reads: "A basket
of eats (was sent) to the Adams family during
quarantine. Words of appreciation (were
received) for remembrances from Mrs. Bertha
Adams."
After her childbearing
years, with the help of a kind and understanding
doctor, her health improved. However, her
marriage had deteriorated over the years, so in
1924, she filed for divorce.
In 1926, in Britton,
Maurice married Clara Myers. Clara was born on
October 25, 1881, in Cheboygan, Wisconsin, to
Robert and Caroline Millyard Francis. Al though
all the children were on their own by this time,
Clara proved to be a good stepmother and a true
friend to each of them. Maurice died in February
of 1956 and Clara died February 22, 1975.
Bertha married her
son-in-law 's father, Frank Barnhart, in 1934.
Frank was not only a loving and considerate
husband, but was also kind and friendly to
Bertha's children and grandchildren. They lived
in Adrian until Frank's death in 1955. Bertha
died February), 1958.
Bertha's children. David
married AdelIa Labert and had four children:
Dorothy, Kenneth, Gloria
and Calvin. Pauline married Edwin Clark and had
three children: Lois, Vivian and Lee. Evelyn
married Forrest Earl Harper and had two
children: Barbara and Nikki. Christine married
Leo Barnhart and had three children: Shirley,
Nancy and Larry. Martha married Michael Dunny
and had three children•: Jack, Gale and Sandra.

James Getty would be proud
to know that another of his descendants has
chosen the clergy as her vocation. His great
great granddaughter, Sandra Sue Dunny Benes, was
ordained an Episcopal priest on June 22, 1984.
James' grandson, William John Getty, Jr., was an
Episcopal priest during the first half of this
century. The following is an excerpt from a
local newspaper:
by Harriet Fields
"Sandy Benes will be
ordained a priest in the Episcopal Church
Friday, June 22, 1984, at 7:30 P.M. in Christ
Episcopal Church, 720 Riverside Avenue. There
have been years of preparation in which Mrs.
Benes worked as a deaconess in the team ministry
with Christ Church rector, the Rev. Jack Warner.
"After her ordination, Mrs.
Benes will be rector of St. Michael's and All
Angels Episcopal Church at Cambridge Junction in
a nonstipendiary capacity. The 140 year old
church has a small congregation, but it is an
important link in the development of the
Episcopal Church in this area.
"Sandy Benes, the former
Sandy Dunny, grew up in Christ Church parish.
Even though she will be rector at St. Michael's
Church there will be work for her to do in her
home church. She will continue as director of
the aging program as well as other activities in
the church.
"In addition to her
concentrated study for the priesthood, she has
maintained a busy schedule as the wife of
Michael Benes, principal of Alexander School,
and the mother of four children."
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