Henry Alfred "Harry" Behm, Sr. was born on Wednesday, September 18, 1872 in New Germany (now Egg Harbor City), New Jersey. He was the son of Sophia (Kempker) and George W. Behm.

In the 1880 census, Harry and his parents were living at 4 Upshure Avenue in Philadelphia.

On Wednesday, November 26, 1902 at the age of 30, Harry married Margaret D. Carson in Philadelphia.

They had one child, Harry Alfred Behm, Jr.

Around 1910, Margaret married Joseph Boyd.

Harry, Sr. died on October 17, 1907 at St. Luke's Hospital in Philadelphia of gangrenous appendicitis at the age of 35. He was buried in North Cedar Hill Cemetery in Philadelphia. Margaret who was born August 8, 1881, died in October of 1970.
 

Although he was baptized at Zion's Lutheran Church in Egg Harbor City a few weeks after his birth, his death certificate gives his birthplace as Buleton, Pennsylvania. He was also listed as George Henry Behm in some documents.

In the Rehmann Family many events since the mid-19th century have occurred at two churches located at 1341 Mays Landing Road in Folsom, New Jersey. (Some sources list the address being in Hammonton, NJ.) There can be some confusion since names of these churches are spelled in slightly different ways depending on the date or the document.

Starting in 1848, the original church was established as St Jacobus Lutheran Church to serve the local German immigrants. It was located on a 12 acre plot of land which included a cemetery.

In 1853, conflicts over theological issues caused a split in the congregation. The land was divided into two six acre sites and one was used to construct what is now St James Lutheran Church, originally St James Evangelical Church. Charles Rehmann (1826-1892) was on the St. James committee. A second facility called Zion Evangelical & Reformed Church was founded at that time. It is sometimes listed as Zion's or Zions.

About 1998 around the 150th anniversary of the original church, the two congregations reunited into St James Lutheran Church. The cemetery is often referred to by either name, St. James or Zion.