Introduction:
Arthur Heiden, husband, father, grandfather and great
grandfather, brother, neighbor, and friend.
Arthur Heiden, a man who loved his family, who loved children,
and who was loved by them in turn.
Arthur Heiden, a man who had a unique sense of humor that
touched all of us and made us laugh on many an occasion. His
ready wit and accompanying smile that still was present even
though he didn’t feel well and was in a great deal of
discomfort.
The memories of this man that all of us have! I remember the
many visits to his home, sitting in the living room or on the
front porch discussing all kinds of things from his childhood
days growing up across the road, to current world situations, to
his family and how proud he was of them. Things were rough at
times, especially when “we first got married” he would say, “but
I had a good life." He was always thankful for what he had.
His family and his home were very important to him. In fact, he
made reference to that only a couple of weeks ago when, in his
witty manner, with a slight smile upon his face, he said to the
doctor in Monroe, “I’ve got a nice home and I sure would like to
use it!”
As we well knew, he didn’t get to use that earthly home again.
As wonderful as that home was to him, he has entered a far
grander and more glorious home that has been prepared for
him...the Heavenly Father’s home that has been prepared for all
those who, knew and love the Lord.
I share this with you because I am sure that with Arthur Heiden,
God’s promises never failed. Jesus’ promise of a home in heaven
were quite real and quite close to him. On more than one
occasion he said to me, as he said to his wife and family, that
he wasn't afraid to die. In fact, he was ready and willing to
depart this life and be with the Lord.
Those of us who knew and loved Art Heiden, who were acquainted
with the suffering he experienced, especially in the last few
years, and more so in the last year and past couple of months
could not really wish him back. Yes, we will miss him, but far
more important is what he has gained, the new life that is now
his, the heavenly home that he now enjoys.
Sometimes, at the death of a loved one, our sorrow becomes a
self-centered, selfish kind of experience. The loss is
ours...and frequently it is a rather bitter one. We find it easy
to recount all the good times we had together, the joys and
moments of happiness that we share, and feel bad that these are
now ended and will be no more. That’s normal. That’s human.
That’s a part of our earthly existence. Sometimes we think more
of what we have lost than of the one we have lost.
The time has to come, as it had to come to me when my father
died, that we think of what our loved one has gained, that he is
now in the Father’s house with his Savior whom he loved and
looked forward to meeting face to face.
There is no human word that can adequately describe what heaven
is like. Jesus gave us a little glimpse of it when He said, “In
my Father’s House are many rooms...” That is, there is room for
everyone who knows and loves him.
St. Paul in I Corinthians 2:9 pictures some of its glory in
these words “Eye has not seen, nor ear heard, neither has it
entered the heart of man, the things which God has prepared for
those, who love him.” In the Sermon on the Mount, Jesus speaks
of it as a place where we will surely want to be when He said,
“Rejoice, and be exceedingly glad; for great is your reward in
heaven.”
The Book of Revelation is rich in figurative, symbolic language
describing the glories of that life, but the reality no doubt
far exceeds what the lang¬uage of earth can convey. We knew that
there shall be no more suffering and death, no more sin, no more
sorrow. We knew that the burdens and cares and toils of this
world are laid aside. We knew that Art’s sufferings are over.
When Art said that "I've got a nice home, and I sure would like
to use it” those words had an eternal and heavenly ring to them.
More than once He said, “I’m ready. I’m ready to die.”
And
Jesus said:
“Let not your hearts be troubled; believe in God, also in me. In
my Father's house are many rooms; if it were not so, would I
have told you that I go to prepare a place for you? And when I
go to prepare a place for you, I will come again and will take
you to myself that where I am you may be also.” You...Art Heiden...and
all the rest of you who know and love me.
Amen
Hymn No. 439 — “What A Friend We Have in Jesus”
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